Open, not sneaky.
Dating for people in open relationships, and for the people happy to be the one on the side. Everyone here knows the deal.
18+ only. Consent from every partner involved is the whole point.
Say the arrangement up front
Weeknights only, no sleepovers, partner-approved. Tags do the awkward talking so nobody wastes a Tuesday.
Blurred until you say so
Keep photos private and hand out a key to the people you actually like. Discreet names hide you from acquaintances.
Disappearing chats and a panic exit
Messages can expire in 24 hours. Tap Escape twice and the app becomes the weather.
Built around consent
Partner-approved badges, boundary cards on every profile, and one-tap reporting when someone lies about their situation.